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Wednesday, July 31, 2013
Recognizing people by the way they walk
[unable to retrieve full-text content]Recognizing people by the way they walk can have numerous applications in the fields of security, leisure or medicine. A new technique offers significant advantages as recognition can be done remotely and does not require the cooperation of the subject. Detecting suspicious behavior (video surveillance), access control to buildings or to restricted areas and demographic analysis of a population in terms of gender and age range are just some of the possible applications of this technology.
Empowering Yourself and Your Relationship Through Healthy Love ...
You meet someone you are excited about and initially seems to be a perfect fit. As you begin the courtship process, you find yourself in the beginning phases of love which Dr. Helen Fischer describes as lust. Your hormones dictate this physical desire for your mate. As you move into the second phase of attraction, you are truly love-struck and you can think of very little except that you have met Mr. or Mrs Right. Initially, everything in the relationship and your love interest seems perfect or ideal. This is a time when we are likely to obsess about our partners and cannot think of anything else. However with time, you may start to notice certain pet peeves with your partner and yet it is brushed off.
Why? For what reason. There can be several explanations. One explanation is that in the early phases of the relationship, our partners are exalted and we believe that our bond and relationship is closer and more special than anyone else?s. Consequently, we do not want to pop our perfect bubble of romantic bliss. In addition, our early childhood experiences that we experienced and observed in our family of origin have created unconscious templates that guide our behavior in our adult romantic relationships. Depending upon our early years of conditioning, if we assert ourselves and our boundaries, we may perceive ourselves or fear that we may be perceived by our partners as being bossy, controlling, high-maintenance, unaccommodating, judgmental, etc.
This can be especially true for women. They do not want to be perceived as a ?b$@%*?. We may also have lost our self-worth and sense of self growing up and believe that we do not deserve to have beliefs, feelings, needs or boundaries. As a result, we struggle with establishing and maintaining healthy boundaries because we have lost the innate power and wisdom to love ourselves.
As the relationship continues, you both settle into the relationship and you move into the last phase of love called attachment where we develop an emotional bond to our partners. Those ?pet peeves? that you brushed away have now become a big annoyance, frustration or irritation and they are really upsetting you. Now you are left thinking: What happened and where did it go wrong? The answer is simple: You did not assert and maintain your boundaries in love. How do we foster a relationship with others, if we do not nurture, honor and have a loving relationship with ourselves?
Instead of perceiving boundaries as a negative character trait, it is important for you to develop a healthy view of yourself and your relationship to boundaries. It is not about being a ?b#%*@?, having boundaries is about empowering, respecting and valuing yourself. It is also about emulating to the other person how it is that you would like to be treated. Setting your own personal boundaries is one of the most healthy behaviors you can engage in for yourself and your relationship.
If you lack setting boundaries in your relationship, you may find yourself making excuses for your partner?s behavior until it all becomes overwhelming and you decide to throw in the towel. You move on to the next relationship, yet somehow history seems to repeat itself. The patterns continue until you take responsibility for yourself, your well-being and loving yourself in a way that allows you to start setting clear boundaries for yourself and your romantic relationship.
Identifying where you lack boundaries requires honesty and a reflective look at past romantic partnerships to determine where the problems originated and continued from the past. This practice requires courage. As you empower yourself to take responsibility for your actions, happiness and relationships, you reclaim your personal power and can create the life and relationships that you want. This allows you to recognize and accept that YOU are responsible for your happiness. When you set and sustain your boundaries you surrender the need to make excuses for others and their unhealthy behaviors.
Sustaining boundaries creates balance in your relationship. When you neglect your boundaries you are doing harm to yourself because you are not respecting your personal value. This opens you up to doing things to keep the other person happy at the expense of your own happiness. What happens over time is that you lose your sense of self for the sake of the relationship. This is dangerous territory as you continue to compromise yourself for the survival or longevity of the relationship. When you have boundaries you give balance to your relationship allowing both parties to enjoy the relationship as you both get what you want from one another. A balanced relationship is healthy because both parties are honoring their own needs and getting their needs met and this exchange is reciprocal. A healthy relationship is one in which both partners give and receive love. Boundaries strengthen bonds in couples and create mutually satisfying relationships.
Source: OM Times
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SPORTS: Transfer players give Columbus Christian shot at winning season
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Madeline Hodek | The Republic Macy Wingham, left, and Kayleigh Reed stand by the Columbus Christian basketball court Friday, July 26. Reed and Wingham transferred to Columbus Christian from Columbus East and Columbus North respectively.
Columbus Christian hasn?t had a winning girls basketball season since reviving the program two years ago, but an influx of talent could give the Crusaders a big boost.
Macy Wingham has transferred from Columbus North, and Kayleigh Reed has transferred from Columbus East. The 5-foot junior guards will have immediate eligibility since Columbus Christian is not an IHSAA school.
?It?s really big,? Columbus Christian coach Ron Bridgewater said. ?We have most of the girls back from the last two seasons, and then to add two girls, it?s just going to raise the level of all of our players and our whole program. The next two years are going to be a lot of fun.?
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Source: http://www.therepublic.com/view/local_story/Transfer-players-give-Columbus_1375160404
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Tuesday, July 30, 2013
New Boston Celtics' Assistant Coach to Have NBA D-League Role?
The Boston Celtics will add former Butler point guard Ronald Nored to their coaching staff as an assistant. Still just 23 years old, Nored is expected to have some sort of role with the Maine Red Claws as well.
The Boston Celtics turned plenty of heads when they tabbed Butler University coach Brad Stevens as Doc Rivers' successor.
Just a few weeks into his tenure, Coach Stevens has quickly been turning heads on his own while filling out his coaching staff.
According to a recent report, Stevens will add an unprecedented second 23 year old prodigy to his bench. Ronald Nored will reportedly join the Celtics in player development related role.
A former point guard for Stevens at Butler, Nored is also expected to have some sort of D-League related role with the Maine Red Claws, Boston's minor league affiliate.
Whether he'll obtain some sort of an official title with Maine, or whether it'll simply fall under his player development related role with the Celtics remains to be seen.
Player development coaches aren't always required to appear on their team's bench for each and every game, for what it's worth. The position sometimes entails traveling and/or mentoring players on and off the court. In the past, a bevy of NBA assistant coaches (whether they be player development ones or not) have been tasked with tagging along for certain NBA young guns' minor league assignments. Both the Golden State Warriors and Houston Rockets have assigned similar staffers to closely monitor the progress of their NBA assignees.
Could Nored be assigned such a task himself next season? This past year, Boston assigned the likes of Fab Melo and Kris Joseph to the Red Claws. It'd certainly be beneficial to send someone with guys like that to keep a closer eye on how they're progressing.
Just a year removed from playing NCAA basketball and still just 23 years of age, it wouldn't be a shock to see Nored also participating in scrimmages with the Celtics this year. After all, the Hawks' Kenny Atkinson is one of the most notorious assistants for doing so, and he keeps up while still being over 40.
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Twitter CEO Commits NCAA Violation
Having graduated from Michigan in 1985, Twitter CEO Dick Costolo is a Wolverines booster as far as the NCAA is concerned. Thus, the tweet below ? directed in part at George Campbell, a Class of 2015 wide receiver who recently committed to UM ? is an NCAA violation.
@WiltonSpeight @GeorgeCampbell0 amazing! #goblue
? dick costolo (@dickc) July 29, 2013
According to NCAA rules, boosters are not allowed to ?contact a prospect by telephone, email, Internet or letter.? Costolo?s at-mention of Campbell falls under the third one.
Twitter?s CEO committing a recruiting violation on Twitter?? We have your ?This Week?s Sign of the Apocalypse is Upon Us? right here, Sports Illustrated.
[Sporting News]
Source: http://www.lostlettermen.com/twitter-ceo-commits-ncaa-violation/
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Monday, July 29, 2013
Weiner vows to stay in New York mayoral race after campaign manager quits (Washington Post)
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